It's likely that you're seeing a charge to your account as a result of subscribing for premium subscription to one of desdempay's online dating websites. 

Why does my bank statement have a charge for desdempay?


“Why am I being charged?”

You have a charge to your account because you've subscribed for premium membership on one of our dating websites'.  

Message STOP to 89595 to halt any future billing.  


Please be aware that all chargebacks are thoroughly investigated and may result in you being added to a blacklist with our processor. This will complicate future online purchases. Denying a purchase that you have made is a criminal offence and an investigation, leading to heavy fines or other legal action, could be made against you. False claims of fraud can also have a direct effect on your credit rating. If you have any questions or concerns, please contact us to clarify any matters.

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“I am trying to pay. Why is my card being declined?”

“I pay via my mobile phone provider. How do I cancel?”

Banks perform checks on e-commerce transactions and as dating websites are of a sensitive nature, payments from them may sometimes be blocked. Let your bank know that you'd like to proceed with a payment and it should be successful following that point. is operated by Desdemona  Limited.
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We at desdempay are passionate at providing our worldwide users with a superior digital platform specialising in online dating. 

We can find out what dating website you have a subscription with if you provide the email address that you will have used at the point of registration with the site. 

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“How do I cancel my subscription?”

Cancel at any time by logging into the website which you're subscribed to and visiting the settings page of your account settings. 

“What are the benefits of VIP Membership?”

As a VIP member you will get a lot more out of the site, including unrestricted message options, access to all media, unlimited photo uploads, private chat in the chatrooms, appearing high in search results and access to enhanced search features.

“How can I pay for membership?”

You can pay for membership by logging into the site where you're registered and finding one of the multiple payment page access points.